SURROUND YOURSELF!

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO BUILD YOU UP, INSTEAD OF BRINGING YOU DOWN! WHEN YOU HANG AROUND NEGATIVE, OR HATEFUL PEOPLE, THE NATURAL INCLINATION IS TO BECOME LIKE THEM.
POSITIVE PEOPLE WILL TRY TO HELP YOU FIND A SOLUTION FOR YOUR PROBLEM, AND TALK ABOUT SOLUTIONS NOT THE PROBLEM.
THE MORE YOU FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE, THE MORE IT INCREASES. IF YOU FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE, THEN IT INCREASES.
WHAT HELPS ME IS TO MAKE A GRATITUDE LIST. IT GETS ME BACK INTO THE SOLUTION RATHER THAN THE PROBLEM.
APPLY THE STEPS (PROBLEM SOLVING): WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? WHAT ARE SOME CHOICES OR ALTERNATIVES? WHAT DO I CHOOSE TO TRY? IS THERE SOMETHING ELSE THAT I CAN DO? PRAY ABOUT IT AND IF THE FIRST CHOICE DOESN’T WORK, THEN TRY ANOTHER. WHATEVER HAPPENS IS GOD’S WILL. WE DO THE FOOTWORK AND GOD TAKES CARE OF THE RESULTS!

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